We had the pleasure of worshipping with another couple last night. I was amazed at the joy and satisfaction to be gained in giving someone else pleasure. It helped that we find the other couple attractive. Actually we flatly refuse to worship with those we find unattractive.
I learnt last night just how potent massage is. Pretty well any part of the body can be massaged and last night the massaging was sexual. In massaging someone we can get to see the pleasurable places we can take them. Often coitus is done with our eyes closed and is very energetic. However massaging and teasing with light strokes and touching every where but where you know the person increasingly wants to be touched is done with the eyes very much open. It makes for a wonderful sight.
Also women, and I know this will come as a surprise, like having their labia stroked with an erect penis. It is perfectly enjoyable to use a nice oil and then effectively engage in coitus without ever actually entering the woman. The stimulation is all external and once a woman is having her labia and clitoris massaged with a nice hard erection the bells and whistles tend to go off. Any position where the woman can have her legs closed works. So missionary, spooning and having the woman lying on her stomach and then mounting from behind all work. With the spooning and rear entry you can periodically enter her for increased lubrication. Also rear entry stimulates the clitoris. Do it for long enough and some astonishing orgasms happen.
And in Tantra orgasm is both the culmination of worship and one of the most personal of gifts. Give orgasms to your fellow Tantrics and you can guarantee that there will be return invites. Part of the worship was also letting the other person know just how beautiful they are. In my case not a tough job. She is beautiful.
Slow, purposeful worship. Slow, beautiful worship.
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